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Oprah chooses Harville Hendrix in her “Top 20 Moments” list of Unforgettable! Oprah’s Top 20 Shows” in a feature celebrating 20 years of the Oprah TV show. Oprah talks about her introduction to Harville and his Imago Relationship Therapy, and how it has changed her view of relationships.
~O Magazine, October 2005
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As you may or may not know part of Harville & Helen’s story was realizing that “negativity” was destroying their relationship. (Negativity is defined as any transaction that the other experiences as hurtful.) Using a calendar, they challenged themselves to track their “zero negativity” days, a simple tool which became transformational and started their pathway toward healing and renewal. Geared towards couples who have some experience with Imago theory (such as taking a workshop or working with an Imago therapist.)

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Oct 10-12
Getting the Love You Want
The Getting the Love You Want workshop emphasizes conscious relationship through the development of new communication and awareness skills, and helps couples achieve wholeness and spiritual growth.
Omega, Rhinebeck, NY
Nov 14-15
Getting MORE of the Love You Want
A follow-up couples retreat with the Founders, Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt. Workshop and meals are held in their private home on the Upper West Side of Manhattan. (Participants are responsible for their own lodging.) Friday night 6-9pm and Saturday 9am -6pm.
Upper West Side of Manhattan
Dec 5-7
Getting the Love You Want: A Workshop for Couples
Kripalu, Stockbridge, MA
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The Love Gospel According
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Harville Hendrix, PhD, Couples Therapist
Imago Dialogue...3 Steps to Connection
Harville Hendrix, PhD and Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhDOf all the exercises in Imago Relationship Therapy, we now regard Imago Dialogue as being the most effective tool for satisfying our innate yearning for wholeness and connection. We co-developed Dialogue as the language of love in all relationships. Dialogue is the language of love in all relationships. Ultimately, the three steps of Dialogue - mirroring, validating, and empathizing - allow us to
                                      discover the other,
                                             grow into our potential,
                                                        and experience connection.

We invite you to "live a life of Dialogue" by exploring the resources on this website. You can find information on couples therapy and workshops at Imago Relationships International

Imago Relationships International

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New & Revised Getting the Love You Want 20th Anniversary Edition

20th-Anniversary Edition of Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples!

Getting the Love You WantOriginally published in 1988, Getting the Love You Want has sold over 2 million copies and has helped millions of couples attain more loving, supportive and deeply satisfying relationships. The 20th Anniversary edition contains extensive revisions to this groundbreaking book with a new chapter, new exercises, and a foreward detailing Dr. Hendrix’ updated philosophy allowing readers of the 2008 edition to benefit from his ongoing discoveries.

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